Fandango’s Provocative Question

“How do you know which of your memories are genuine and which have been altered over time or even made up?” I don’t really know. I wouldn’t trust my memory at this point. My husband would often say that my memories are so different from how things have actually transpired. This is very timely because […]

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Valentine’s Day Fever

How do you feel about Valentine’s Day? Do you consider it to be a special day, one where you express your deep love and appreciation for your significant other? Or is it just a commercialized “Hallmark Holiday” where you feel pressured to spend money on cards, flowers, candy, jewelry, and/or expensive dinners in order to stay on the good side of the one you love? Either way, what, if anything, are your plans for Valentine’s Day this year?

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Insecurity = Jealousy = Envy

Is jealousy purely a negative and potentially destructive emotion, or does jealousy have any value as a motivator to drive people to improve themselves? Fandango Few years ago, I received a random job offer from someone whom I’ve met from my previous projects & blindly offered me a package I could not refuse. I’ve got […]

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Fandango’s Provocative Question (Dec 16)

How do we make peace with ourselves, knowing that, being the basically good people we are, we also have a side to us which we know isn’t the best — our “dark side”? Can we overcome these parts of our lives that we may not be proud of? Or do we simply accept them, learn […]

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FPQ 98: Confrontation vs Peace

When it comes to your friends, your spouse, your significant other, or members of your family, is it better to confront them about things they say or do that bother or upset you or is it better to try to ignore those things in order to maintain peace in your relationship? Fandango My being not […]

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How Do You Feel About Blog Awards

and why do you feel that way. Fandango asks… It depends on which blog award you refer to. My old blog was among the top 50 nominees for the Expatriate Blog Award in 2010. I was so happy to be nominated alongside bloggers whose sites I follow religiously. If I had won, I would have […]

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